I've been putting off writing this entry for a week, because I simply don't really know how to write it. There are so many things I want to say, and yet so many of them don't attach well to words - only to strong feelings and emotions, the way certain songs bring back the intangible moments of one's childhood.
I think I'll just start with the facts and save the long, introspective part for a later entry, once I've had a chance to really process all of this.
In a nutshell: after four incredible years here, I'm going to be leaving MIT in July. I'll also be leaving Boston, which has been my home for more than a decade, and which will always be the city I love more than any other. It's a lot to digest, and it's going to take some time.
I guess you probably want to know the details. I'm heading back to Oberlin, my alma mater, where I've just been appointed Vice President for Communications - I'll be overseeing communications strategy for the whole college. Those of you with whom I've spoken about Oberlin know how deeply I love the place, and at this critical moment in its history, it needs me - in many of the same ways that MIT did four years ago - to help it tell its story to the world. It's a tremendous professional opportunity, but to me it feels more like a calling than a job.
Nothing can lighten the sadness of leaving MIT. I may not be an alum, but I did spend four very intense years here. I may not have taken 8.02, but I also didn't get summers off the way you slackers do... so let's just call it even. ;-) As Nance says, I may have been born into the Oberlin family and married into the MIT family, but one is no less significant than the other.
So while I may be leaving MIT physically, I'll never leave MIT - it's too much a part of me. I'll just be more like an alum than a current student.
One thing is certain: if I am invested in you - and you know who you are - no distance will ever change that. I'll still be checking up on you, keeping tabs, making sure you're getting the most out of your college experience, same as I've always done.
That's a promise.
I'll write a lot more over the next couple of months. I'll get all sorts of reflective and nostalgic, as soon as I'm ready. Stay tuned.
-B
P.S. This is the 2500th entry on mitadmissions.org. That speaks for itself, I suppose.
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Posted by: ep on May 15, 2008
Posted by: Snively on May 15, 2008
Posted by: Vicky '12 on May 15, 2008
Posted by: Zaira '11 on May 15, 2008
I'm glad you have new horizons and opportunities to explore, but this is very sad to me. I too shall miss you!
~Donald
Posted by: donaldGuy on May 15, 2008
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Posted by: yukiko on May 15, 2008
But I know you know enough to make the right decision for yourself. I wish you every bit of luck I can for your work at Oberlin.
Your name is still signed onto the cards I received from MIT admissions for the holidays. You personally signed it which means you are concretely and officially part of my MIT experience. You won't be forgotten
Posted by: Matt F on May 15, 2008
Posted by: MIT Parent on May 15, 2008
Posted by: milena '11 on May 15, 2008
Posted by: Patrick Collison on May 15, 2008
Also, my parents say congratulations, which I'm supposed to tell you.
In all seriousness, though, that is a really awesome opportunity, so make us all proud. You'll be seriously missed. Oberlin doesn't know how lucky they are.
Posted by: Shannon '12 on May 15, 2008
-Ram
Posted by: Ram - a parent on May 15, 2008
But the news came too unexpectedly... All of us who have gotten attached to this admission site will definitely miss you!
All the best, Ben!
Posted by: Tong '12 on May 15, 2008
We'll miss you though...=(
Posted by: Rena '12 on May 15, 2008
Best Wishes.
Posted by: Daniel '12 on May 15, 2008
I still haven't really met you in person...Physically, I mean...
T.T Can you please just pop up one second during orientation? No? *sadness*
But I still wish you the best for everything happening in your life! I know that you'll be a blessing to people lucky enough to be around you
Awwww >.But Ben...
I still haven't really met you in person...Physically, I mean...
T.T Can you please just pop up one second during orientation? No? *sadness*
But I still wish you the best for everything happening in your life! I know that you'll be a blessing to people lucky enough to be around you
Awwww >.< But I still haven't meet you in person...T.T
Posted by: senna '12 on May 15, 2008
The blogs are so well organized, and definitely give MIT Admissions an edge. My experiences at CPW matched the impressions I got from the blogs, which proved to me that they really do represent MIT.
Posted by: Li '12 on May 15, 2008
I didn't know your real name was Edward
Perhaps I haven't conveyed my sentiments to you yet, but good luck and thanks for you have done to all of us. And thanks is an understatement.
Posted by: Oasis '11 on May 15, 2008
Thanks for all hard work you did with 3-108... and the awesome application advice you've given all these years...
Best of luck!!!
Posted by: Tanmay '12 on May 15, 2008
Oh, also, I'll miss you. Or something. =P
Posted by: Laura on May 15, 2008
Posted by: 0 on May 15, 2008
Posted by: Steph on May 15, 2008
*poke*
Posted by: Kes '11 on May 15, 2008
I hope you spread lots of this at Oberlin:
http://jwcxz.com/pictures/cpw08/55.jpg
Posted by: JWC '12 on May 15, 2008
Best of luck at Oberlin!
Posted by: 0 on May 15, 2008
Have fun in your new job! And drop by next year at CPW to pretend you are a pre-frosh! (It is worth a try, neh?)
Posted by: Liz '12 on May 15, 2008
Who's taking over the admissions site?!
Posted by: Hawkins on May 16, 2008
Thanks for always keeping it real!
Posted by: archimedes on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Viva '12 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Muz on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Tina '11 on May 16, 2008
But yes, this *is* an amazing opportunity. I just wish you could be in both places at the same time.
All the best Ben
note to all (pre)frosh : lets clone Ben and keep the original ?
Ok, thats not even funny...
Let me put it this way, I've never even met you but I'll miss you and your presence here on the MIT blogs.
Posted by: Aditi on May 16, 2008
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Posted by: 0 on May 16, 2008
I just wish I'd had the chance to share one last hug for good luck. (I've only ever been in Ohio once in my life and am unlikely to ever be there again.) Stay real, and be well.
All the best always... to one of the best.
Posted by: leftcoast mom on May 16, 2008
I'm so sad to see you go =(. You've been an absolutely amazing admissions officer. I love your blogs so much! I'm honored to be admitted under you Oh Ben!
I'm so sad to see you go =(. You've been an absolutely amazing admissions officer. I love your blogs so much! I'm honored to be admitted under you <3.
Congratulations on your spectacular new position. I know you'll kick butt! (And make sure whoever comes in is half as good as you ;D.)
Tons of love <33
Posted by: Piper on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Justine '10 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Chris Mills on May 16, 2008
Also, I want to say that MIT admissions site is the best out there--so good that I feel I know more about MIT than my own school. Thank you for making that possible.
Posted by: Matt, PSU '11 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: mit hopeful on May 16, 2008
And I am not saying goodbye yet, because you are not gone yet.
Posted by: Isshak on May 16, 2008
Posted by: 0 on May 16, 2008
......our Nobel prize winner for "Heart Communications"
You are a reflection of so many of the great old adages:
"You can't keep a good man down"
"on to bigger and better..."
"a real trail-blazer"
"shock and awe"
"the only thing constant is change"
"you, a true V.I.P." !!!
Thank you for "so manys". Best wishes and Good Luck!
auf Wiedersehen
Posted by: family Fronk on May 16, 2008
Abiy 2012
Posted by: 0 on May 16, 2008
Congrats on the new job, but you are going to be missed terribly at MIT.
Posted by: Tamara on May 16, 2008
Maybe you're tired of hearing this by now, but you'll definitely be missed.
And oh, I think the new job title will fit on a business card.
Posted by: Abduhu '12 (hopeful) on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Al on May 16, 2008
Ben, congratulations on the new job, Mr. Vice President! Even though you will not be at MIT for much longer, always remember...
If a car leaves MIT at 65 miles per hour towards Oberlin, and a car leaves Oberlin at 75 miles per hour towards MIT, how long will it take for either car to get a speeding ticket?
(in other words... the great beaver poops on us all, no matter where we are!)
-nakoruru
So, next year, we can see you at www.oberlinadmissions.org?
Posted by: nakoruru on May 16, 2008
Goodbye and Good luck Ben!!!!
Posted by: Judy '12 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Katelyn '12 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Sh1fty on May 16, 2008
Thank you for a great job here, I am sure that your new place will be lucky to have such a great person!
Congrats! and... we will miss u!
Posted by: kaynar on May 16, 2008
Posted by: Danny '12 on May 16, 2008
Posted by: donaldzmom on May 16, 2008
Come back to MIT soon. ^_^
Posted by: Anonymous '12 on May 16, 2008
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Posted by: carmen'12 on May 16, 2008
You made me see MIT in every possible way.
You helped me a lot to know myself as well. Be it your posts, your advice after the rejections.
You don't need all the best or any luck, be assured that you are going to do well.
And do keep us posted.
And finally 'Don't Panic' and keep a towel for sure...from a new fan of Douglas Adams.
Will miss you and Big thanks for everything.
Do read the thank you note in the Matt's post I once posted when you get time...
Take Care.
Posted by: Libin Daniel on May 17, 2008
Best of luck at Oberlin. I hope that MIT will be okay without you...
Posted by: Karen '12 on May 17, 2008
Ahhh! I can't believe you are leaving! I feel like it has only been a few months since I got my acceptance letter. I guess Oberlin deserves awesomeness too.......but still, you're gonna be missed dude!
ADIOS!~K~
Posted by: kierstonia on May 17, 2008
Posted by: MIT '12 on May 17, 2008
G'luck :(
Posted by: wendi on May 18, 2008
Posted by: Jeremy '12 on May 18, 2008
You're leaving.
Ben, you made me cry.
Posted by: Nur'10 on May 19, 2008
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