Shameless thievery from a colleague's blog topic (sorry Matt).
There are a great many more of you that were deferred that admitted. I'm sure that receiving the news that you are deferred has to be disappointing (to say the least) to all of you. Please take heart in knowing that you still have a shot at MIT. Unlike Langston Hughes' poem A Dream Deferred, your dream is still alive. Let's talk about it, openly, and honestly. Please let me know how I can help to put it into a perspective that helps you see the situation from a strategic and global vantage point. Before you respond to me, be sure to read the post by Dean Marilee Jones on the TIM Blog. If it doesn't resonate with you, then your heart pumps ice water.
Please post and let's chat!
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Sometime around Thursday, I tried to see how I would process acceptance, rejection, and deferral (basically to just make sure I wouldn't feel suicidal or anything). When I think about it now, the emotions aren't nearly as strong. It's a good way to help other people.
Dean Jones's post was excellent as well.
But...I have a question:
Are we allowed to send any sort of supplemental material to try and beef up our folder before the regular reading period?
Thanks
Posted by: Evan on December 13, 2005
Do you know why myMIT is going down tommorrow?
Posted by: Alexandre on December 13, 2005
Posted by: April on December 13, 2005
I'm sure you'll know something by the end of the week. I know that my words probably ring hollow right now. Just hold tight.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 13, 2005
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 13, 2005
Posted by: Ben Smith on December 14, 2005
And Bryan, the comforting is much appreciated. Although I was hoping to get something (preferrably a tube) today so I didn't have to do my Stanford essays
Posted by: Evan on December 14, 2005
If so, tomorrow might be *the day* for mid-westerners
Posted by: DJ on December 14, 2005
Posted by: ZOOM on December 14, 2005
Posted by: Alexandre on December 14, 2005
i am seriously about to cry...ANOTHER 24 HRS OF WAITING
Posted by: April on December 14, 2005
Posted by: Adnan Esmail on December 14, 2005
MIT is still my top choice, though, and I was wondering what kind of materials I could send that would be helpful. Will extra essays and recommendations help? Anything else?
Posted by: Emily on December 14, 2005
Posted by: Leigh on December 14, 2005
I'm willing to bet that we lost this fight. We'll live to fight another.
Best of luck.
Posted by: Alexandre on December 14, 2005
Posted by: yasha on December 14, 2005
Thanks
Posted by: queensman on December 14, 2005
Hang in there, it's not over yet!
Posted by: Alex on December 14, 2005
Posted by: Josh on December 15, 2005
Posted by: Jeremy on December 15, 2005
if i'm deferred i'm not sure if i'll do anything...i'm not sure WHAT i could do
Posted by: April (still waiting) on December 15, 2005
Posted by: neil sikka on December 15, 2005
Posted by: April (still waiting) on December 15, 2005
Posted by: April (still waiting) on December 15, 2005
Bryan
Posted by: Bryan on December 15, 2005
jk
i'm glad i was deferred..i was sure i'd get a reject
aim sn: digigurl101
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 15, 2005
Posted by: Catherine on December 15, 2005
You seem like a cool guy. I just wanted to thank you and the rest of the admissions team for doing such noble work. It's impossible to please everyone, but you guys did the best you could. I got deferred, and I have to admit that I was disappointed, but at least you guys gave me another shot.
Thanks again
Posted by: Dave Kratz on December 15, 2005
Everyone who was deferred...read this thread:
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/showthread.php?t=125531
trust me, it'll help.
Posted by: Sharat on December 15, 2005
Regarding decision:
"Gradual Progress. The marriage of a maiden brings good fortune. Persistence in a righteous course brings reward."
"Keep it balanced with that
{K}nowledge {O}f {S}elf [determination]"
-Words without a source...try and leave them be like that for a contrast:
We got a word or two from a source we want to know; we know this place. Every person who completed an application to this institution should be proud of themselves.
Best of health and heart to all
And, do share, Nance, some of that tasty global perspective... what is your understanding of how we can view the time we have left as giving the deferred more chances for helping your side understand us?
Posted by: Ron Zipkin on December 15, 2005
Also I agree with Dave - as hard as it is to be deferred, lets thank the admissions team for giving us the chance. And also thank them for all the effort they have put in. I am sure it is not the easiest thing to do - defer or reject the applicants. So lets show that we are thankful for whatever we got in the mail.
Posted by: Timur Starobinets on December 15, 2005
Posted by: Anne on December 15, 2005
AIM is Druber4Twober if you'd like to talk about MIT or anything else.
Posted by: Drew on December 15, 2005
It would be cool if all of we who have been deferred could chat on IRC.
my server is irc.ashen.us #mit
I'll be around most of the time.
Posted by: Daniel on December 15, 2005
I think a good sense of humor really helps with the resilience thing that Dean Jones was talking about. I know that whatever happens in the end, the admissions committee will have made the best choices they could given the information they had. There's really no point in being bitter or sad, ESPECIALLY over just a deferral. After all, as Dean Jones said, they're just "holding on" to our application to review again.
Posted by: Zack Yang on December 15, 2005
Good luck everyone.
Posted by: N on December 15, 2005
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Posted by: Rose on December 15, 2005
:D
Posted by: Timur Sahin on December 15, 2005
I wish we could transcend all racial barriers and such. It's impossible, I know, but should that have been the case, I would be much more at peace than I am right now.
Posted by: Nathanael Lee on December 15, 2005
What is the percentage of people who got deferred/rejected?
Thx
Posted by: Wayne on December 15, 2005
Yes, I'm that tense. Tomorrow, it'll have been a week since the stuff went out, and I'll be in school when the mail comes 'round. All I want to do is stake out the mailbox some more.
Has anyone in WI recieved anything?
Posted by: Rhiannon Carr on December 15, 2005
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Posted by: Drew on December 15, 2005
Earlier today, I posted something on Ben's blog to the effect of "I called today...I was denied. I lost this fight; I'll live to fight another...Good luck to the rest." That turned out to be essentially true except for the part about my being denied, and the part about my losing this fight.
I called in this morning, and had a dialog that went something like this.
Me: Good morning. I'm calling to check my admission status.
Officer: ...Your status?
Me: Yes...the decision.
After checking my identification
Officer: Unfortunately, we could not offer you admission. The competition was very tight this year.
Me: So I was denied and not deferred?
Officer: Yes, you were denied.
After telling all my friends that I had been rejected, and receiving very comforting replies, I went home. It so happened that my mother had also called MIT, and learned that I had been deferred.
Obviously, I called Cambridge again, and learned that this second decision was the correct one.
I want to be clear: Marilee and Ben have been so supportive, and their statements have been so genuine, that I feel absolutely no anger against MIT or the admissions office. But between the mail screw-up and now this fiasco, I can't help but feel somewhat betrayed. I'm not sure who, if anyone, is to blame, though.
Thanks to all of you for your support - especially April, who tactfully responded to my "rejection" earlier.
I suppose this goes to show that miracles do happen. At the very least, the support I received, coupled with my happiness to be deferred - when I previously would have been unaffected by the defferal - is a good outcome. They say that all's well that end's well. I'm so happy I could spit!
Good luck to you all; God bless the admissions office (minus that lady I talked to this morning, I hope there's a special place in hell for her. JK.)
Alexandre.
Posted by: Alexandre on December 15, 2005
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Posted by: Omar Fernandez on December 16, 2005
the one thing i hate about our society is the emphasis we put on race. the last couple of years i've been looking for good engr. summer camps..wut made me mad is that there are SO many that are just for minorities..i don't see how this can be right..it isn't my fault i was born white and it seems as if pple are discriminating against me in the name of affirmative action...I AM NOT SAYING MIT DOES THAT..i don't mean that...after lots of searching i finally found a couple of camps i could apply to (they had to be free i'm cheap..well..just broke)..the one i got in was at Pittsburgh Univ. i guess you can say i'm shelterd..but being homeshooled i have NEVER thought about race..i don't think it matters..i grew up in a church of about 200 pple represnting over 25 countries..i never thought about race..i didn't think other sdid either..the summer program i went to proved me wrong..all of a sudden i was a minority because of my gender (how does that wrk out?!?!) i was forced to take a class called "cultural awareness" a misnomer..i had to sit through this teacher bashing my race every class.. that's all it was.."it's all white ples fault that blacks are a minority in engr" EVRY class! it was hard for me and when i tried to speak up she ignored me or twisted my words...i guess the purpose of this post is i don't understand y race matters..we're all the same..that's why whenever possible i don't submit my race or gender..i see no reason why whoever is asking for it should need it..please don't understand me...almost all of my friends are minorities...(i hate that word) i just wish we lived in a world were race didn't matter...i am not saying i was deffered cuz of my race! definately not..i dont' think that at all
well..that's all..congrats on your deferral pples!
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 16, 2005
Posted by: Jen on December 16, 2005
What is the date they need to be postmarked and what additional materials should students provide?
Thanks for all you do, MIT Admissions!
Posted by: Mom of Deferred (Excited) App on December 16, 2005
Posted by: insanepin on December 16, 2005
Posted by: Jes on December 16, 2005
I also got accepted to my second choice school today which is definitely good because I was not expecting a decision until March. I spent the day relearning why I liked the school enough to make it my second pick and would definitely not be disappointed to go there. Besides its also one of the about 20 schools where I get to L-O-V-E E=mc2. (Seriously my only experience with E=mc2 comes from the limited amount of chemistry we did with it and unfortunately it does not look like we will get to it in physics this year because of lost time.)
Posted by: Justin on December 16, 2005
p.s. congrats to everyone else who was deferred, i'll keep my fingers crossed for us in march.
Posted by: Sarah on December 16, 2005
I agree completely. In "A Separate Peace" John Knowles states that one of his characters "never loved his school as much as when he was breaking its rules" and Jefferson claims that a true patriot questions his government. Thus, I feel that I serve, rather than condemn, MIT when I say that I am disappointed that it favors those who were born a particular skin color, in addition to those who have achieved the most.
We've abolished discrimination from our laws. We will never truly transcend racism, until we strike discrimination from colleges' admissions' patterns. And MIT should lead this trend, just as it leads in everything else.
Posted by: Alexandre on December 17, 2005
Posted by: Alexandre on December 17, 2005
Just about every school where you can L-O-V-E E=mc2 (ie get a nuclear engineering degree) is a good, well-respected school. It also made the application process so much easier for me. Instead of starting from 20000 colleges, I started from 20. I did not have to worry about the instate v outofstate issue because no instate school offers the major (which is weird considering the two nuclear reactors in the state). I did not have to agonize about whether I wanted to go to Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Stanford or Caltech since none of them have it (it gets annoying explaining to everyone why you dont want to go to [insert college of your choice here]). Also, it was what made me consider MIT instead of opting for the easy way out which would have been Tulane (which did the unforgivable thing of gutting the engineering department. They kept only chem and bio and dropped civil, mech, electric, and computer eng and sci).
Posted by: Justin on December 17, 2005
Here is a question that I would like to get a response to from an admissions officer: If I don't get in to MIT for undergrad or it turns out that it would be financially impossible for me to go and I end up going to University of Florida, how would that impact my chances for getting accepted to graduate school at MIT? I definately plan on going to graduate school. UF is a great option for me because I can go almost for free. Its not a bad school, but it isn't exactly the top either. Any thoughts or suggestions on that? Thanks
Posted by: Bryan on December 17, 2005
i dont' want to accuse anyone..it is disappointing that race has a factor but i like to give MIT the benefit of teh doubt..if there were two equally qualified pple and one was a minority and the other wasn't..which one would they admit? maybe it would be a "benefit to teh college as a whole" to admit the minority...but it isn't MY fault i was born white! (i hate being called white..my skin may be white but i am an AMERICAN..if you were talking about ancestors...i'm norwegian and irish...i'm not white..i'm american)
idk..it just made me mad to have to sit and listen to my "teacher" degrading my race and essentially blaming ME for the fact that her race IS a minority..
the one thing i love about living in America is that we ARE different..it would be awfully boring if we were all the same..i just wish that it didn't have any bearing in college descisions
Posted by: 0 on December 17, 2005
that was me!
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 17, 2005
and alexandre, we can't strike 'dicsrimination' as u call it from college admissions until we come to a point where the majority of the poor and underprivileged don't come from a certain race, like they do now
by the way i don't think indians are considered minorities - at least, not from what the teachers at my school tell me. (apparently we are genetically the same as caucasians, so we aren't a minority even though we aren't classified as caucasians) if anyone could confirm or refute this, i'd appreciate it, only b/c i think its interesting.
Posted by: Raksha on December 17, 2005
It is true that technically Asian (China, Japan, etc.) and Indian sub-continent are minorities. Yet, it is also true that as far as colleges/universities are concerned, they consider Native American, "Hispanic" and African American the *under-represented* minorities.
There are genetic arguments, but I don't believe they are considered when you note your race/ethnicity. I believe it can be equally proved that most of the Indian subcontinent is both oriental and caucasian. Much of Alexander the Great's armies came as far as Multan in present-day Pakistan where many settled. Additionally, Arab traders visited and settled in India and Pakistan. The Mughal (Mogul) empire who ruled the subcontinent were descendents of the Mongols from China. Also, Buddhists from Nepal traveled throughout the area (especially the Punjab).
Back to the college issue: My son is half-Pakistani and it is of absolutely no benefit to him. The tech/engineering schools have a very large Asian/Indian population.
Hope this helps!
Posted by: Mom of Deferred (Excited) App on December 17, 2005
And it is not in the college's best interest to admit a less qualified applicant so that they can say they are racially tolerant. (this last comment applies to several schools, like UPenn, but not to MIT.)
Posted by: Alexandre on December 17, 2005
there is barely any diversity in my school, my brother and i, and a few others are about it, so i'd have to say thats MIT's racial diveristy was something that attracted me.
and i thought there was no genetic differences between any of the races... hmm maybe i'll go into genetics
Posted by: Jen on December 17, 2005
Global perspective.... Keep your head in the game.Remember, will re-examine your application for regular. Look like an NFL wildcard game. You might not have the Superbowl, but you advanced ti the next round, In this pool, that's really saying something.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
We have no way of knowing if you've applied EA somewhere else. Even if we did know (like maybe your GC sent us the wrong letter of rec) we would not hold that against you. Besides, we know that if you are applying to MIT you must swim in the deep end of the think tank. We would be fools if we didn't expect you to apply to other schools.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
I'd try REALLY, REALLY hard to have all supplemental info in by the end of January, beginning of Feb. at the latest.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
Congrats on admission to the home of the Ramblin' Wreck (GT). I have 2 cousins who attended. One was EE and he works for Bell South and the other was a College All-American linebacker who went on to have a 10+ year career in the NFL. He now works for the GT Athletics department.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
Your undergrad application will have no bearing on your graduate application to MIT. We are 2 completely different offices. In fact, the graduate process is completely de-centralized. Each department makes it's own admissions decisons at the graduate level. So no matter where you land, work hard!
Conversely, attending MIT as an undergrad does not gaurentt that you will be admitted to a MIT grad program.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
Alexandre,
Here is where your logic falters. WE DO NOT ADMIT UNQUALIFIED APPLICANTS. No student at MIT ever has to wonder how he or she got to MIT. We are a meritocracy, plain and simple. There are no back doors to the infinite corridor. It is sad that in the 21st Century in America we are still dealing with the societal blowback of racism.
Choose your words carefully... Affirmative Action protects many more clusters than URM's. It is a tool that ensures equity throughout the admissions process for all people. The last time I checked, there is NO majority race at MIT.
Finally, I don't know how you make the leap form equal opportunity afforded by Affirmative Action to inferior status.
Remember # 25 & 26 from my previous post, dated October 21, 2005: "I've Got 99 Problems... Admissions Is Not One".
25. DO NOT EVER BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE A STUDENT OF COLOR THAT YOU WILL BE ADMITTED SOLELY BECAUSE OF AFFIRMATIVE ACTION
26. If you are not a student of color don't fall into the trap of thinking you was not admitted because of Affirmative Action. If you are admitted, it will be because of merit. If not, it wasn't because someone else took your spot.
Posted by: The Nance Effect on December 18, 2005
Posted by: Bryan on December 18, 2005
I have one more concern... My son (still out-of-town) has an unusual charter-school type background and he has yet to finish Biology and Chemistry this year (Senior)--though he has two years of Physics. He won't be starting his Chemistry until Winter Trimester, but still will finish a 3 credit (1 year) course in Winter 1.5 /Spring 1.5.
His first trimester grades were mailed two days before EA decisions were mailed, so they crossed in the mail. His teacher noted the unusual circumstances with Chemistry.
My question is: his next trimester ends March 9th, should the school fax his second trimester grade report to MIT for verification of his Chemistry class and grade received?
Thanks again!
Posted by: Mom of Deferred (Excited) App on December 18, 2005
If MIT's RA was 14.3% and EA 13.5% last year, and EA 12% this year, assuming trends are proportional, MIT's RA this year will be about 12.7.
Which means that those of us not in the 12% (aka, deferred) have a .7% chance of getting admitted in regular.
Posted by: ???? on December 18, 2005
WE STILL HAVE A SHOT. So don't worry, apply to other colleges as backups and just hope for the best.
PS- I want my tube in March!!!
PS 2- Wouldn't it be funny if they sent out rejections in a tube? No thats just scary, forget I ever mentioned it.
Posted by: Sam on December 18, 2005
ps- i want a tube 2
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 18, 2005
Posted by: Alexandre on December 18, 2005
Thanks for your response. One point is still unclear to me, however; I hope you won't mind my asking:
I never said that MIT does admit unqualified applicants. However, 10% of engineerings students nationwide are women; at MIT, that number is 40%. Is this really because women are so much more qualified than men? Or is it because a qualified woman has an easier time getting admitted than an equally qualified man? (Same thing with racial minorities).
-AG
Posted by: Alexandre on December 18, 2005
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Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 19, 2005
i hope so
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 19, 2005
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Posted by: Omar Fernandez on December 19, 2005
I'm allowed one physics course. The rest have to be math or bio/chem.
Posted by: 0 on December 20, 2005
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 20, 2005
I just read an article that said that the number of women engineers is actually going down now. There was a boom in the 80's for women in engineering, but since then the numbers keep dropping. Heres the link if your interested
http://www.boston.com/news/education/higher/articles/2005/12/18/in_computer_science_a_growing_gender_gap/?p1=MEWell_Pos3
Posted by: Jen on December 20, 2005
when i was young whenever i thought of computer science i thought of geeky guys...maybe that attitude is why there are less and less women in CS...
cool article btw
Posted by: April (no longer waiting but deferred) on December 20, 2005
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-AG
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Posted by: SpeckJr on December 23, 2005
Which is why I would really <3 MIT... no declaring majors until your third year. Plus they have, what, 8 introductory physics courses? ::glee::
Posted by: 0 on December 23, 2005
Posted by: Sophia Elie on December 23, 2005
It sounds slightly disconcerning for this to-be physics major.
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Posted by: Jen on December 24, 2005
I'm gonna be double major in physics and math. Well it is kinda hard for a physics major to get a job, unless they get lucky and discover something. I think most physics major eventually shift to engineering. I think a lot of physics major end up as college professors.
How am I gonna get a job as a math/physics major? hopefully I get lucky
Posted by: Sam on December 25, 2005
Posted by: Sam on December 25, 2005
I spend once a week at Fermilab for a school program, with a bunch of international physicists, and what I observe is that they all have everything they want: tons of money to spend on any physics toy they could want. But they still don't make half as much money as my dad, who's a computer engineer.
In the end, I guess, it's all where your priorities lie. You might say now that you don't care about money, only pursuing your dreams, but when you finish all the hardest courses at the hardest schools and end up working for your next door neighbor who never studied a day in his life because s/he chose a luckier major... the wierd parents aren't 100% wrong.
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Posted by: Anonymous on January 3, 2006
Indians aren't a minority because there is a specific percentage of the population a group has to take up before it's a minority... Indians don't meet that minimum requirement so that's why we aren't officially a minority, according to one of my teachers.
Also, North Indians are descendants of Europeans (Aryans, specifically) but the majority of South Indians aren't, they're 'Dravidian'. Where those Europeans settled, including the Punjab, is North India/Pakistan.
(But I can guarantee you that I'm not white. BTW I'm south indian.)
And I'm sure there is some disadvantage to being Asian in the admissions process... if I was a racially blind admissions committee and accepted everyone solely based on academics, my campus would prolly be 75% Asian, which would be kind of odd.
Posted by: David Beckahm(sort of...) on January 3, 2006
hehe, ur right, if everything was based solely on academics, it WOULD be mostly asians.
since mit has a sizeable indian population, i'd completely forgotten that i wouldn't be considered a minority......dang it.
Posted by: Yasha on January 6, 2006
Posted by: Nick Zhao on January 7, 2006
called "The Permanent Damage Left by One Letter")
Oh,did anyone else from VA get deferred from MIT.
Posted by: Ariel on February 9, 2006
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