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Chris Peterson SM '13

Apr 21, 2011

Finding Your Match

Posted in: Process & Statistics

As April ends, and admitted students everywhere decide where to enroll, I wanted to take a few moments to speak directly to the Class of 2015 about something you should be thinking about over the next few days.

That something is match.

We talk a lot about match here at MIT Admissions. But what we mean by match - and what match means to you - isn't always obvious.

Other important factors in your college decisions process are much more straightforward. Cost. Prestige. Distance. These are things that are easily grasped. You're already thinking about them. But match is also an important factor that isn't as commonly discussed, or easily understood, as these others.

Let me tell you about what match means to me:

When I was searching for and applying to schools six years ago, match wasn't foremost in my mind. Or in my mind at all. In fact, it wasn't really part of my college search vocabulary or conceptual framework. I can't recall once sitting down with my guidance counselor, or parents, or friends and asking "where would be a good match for me?"

I was a good student at a rural but well-resourced public high school in New Hampshire. I was the eldest child, so I was making things up as I went along. I knew I was stronger in the humanities and social sciences than in STEM, so I went on to Princeton Review, searched for liberal arts colleges, rank-ordered them by fanciness, and visited maybe sixteen. Some I liked. Some I didn't. Most I felt ambivalent about. I applied to 10, more or less because they were in New England, had good names, I hadn't hated them, and they used the Common App.

I picked my first college because it was the most prestigious to which I had been accepted (and because Jon Stewart went there and he was my idol). It was, and still is, a terrific school. I still keep in touch with a few friends from there. They did well then and are doing well now. But it wasn't for me. I didn't feel like I fit in. For the first time in my life I didn't enjoy school anymore. And I figured I was paying too much money to be unhappy.

So I transferred back home to the same local state school my parents had attended, reasoning that I might as well go to the cheapest college I could. It was indeed less expensive, but I wasn't really a better fit there either. As a teetotaling academic at a school where, during my first semester, the National Guard was called in to put down drunken riots, I felt far outside the cultural mainstream. So I moved way offcampus with a few friends and rented a mold-infested ranch house that would soon be condemned. I took as few classes as I could, spent the remainder of my time working as a teaching and research assistant for a few professors in my area of interest, and basically counted the days to graduation.

Whereupon, in May 2009, I immediately graduated into the most devastating economic crisis since the Great Depression. I was applying to any and every job listing I could find. The only callback I got was for a position running web communications at MIT's Admissions Office.

The first time I stepped foot on MIT's campus was for my job interview. I had gotten lost on my way in and called the admissions office for directions, arriving 15 minutes late and wondering why the hell they couldn't just name the buildings like normal people. I spent the next six hours interviewing with Matt, Chris S, Chris M, and half a dozen others. I drove home. A few days later - just a week before I graduated - I got the call that I'd got the gig.

My first thought was: hooray! against all odds, I'm employed!

My second thought was: oh my god, what am I doing

(Incidentally, I've been told that if you substitute "admitted" for "employed", this is essentially what went through many of your minds on Pi Day)

I'd knew nothing about MIT other than that they built robots and had long hallways I'd already spent an inordinate amount of time being lost in. But within a month or two of working here, I knew I'd made the right choice. Because working at MIT has given me something I never had in my own undergraduate experience: a match.

Ok, but what does match mean?

The best way I can describe it is like this: finding your match means feeling like you're home. A profound sense of belonging. The feeling that wherever you are is the place you are meant to be.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, then you haven't felt it yet. I know I never looked for this during my own college search, or felt this way in my own undergraduate experience. Sure, there are a half-dozen people at each of the schools I attended with whom I will be friends for life. But it wasn't until I came to MIT that I felt that way about an entire community. The people, the culture, the ethos just make sense to me.

I picked my first college on the basis of its prestige, and the second on its cost. For the third...well, it was MIT or law school, and MIT seemed like something I would enjoy more. So I guess, even though I didn't then know what I was doing, I was picking on the basis of match. And I've never been happier.

Of course, match isn't the only thing that exists in the world. Cost, prestige, distance: all of those factors I mentioned at the beginning are real. It's important - unavoiadable, really - that you include them in your decision making process. And even though I wasn't a terrific match at my first two schools, I still did fine, and I would have been fine had I stayed at either.

But I wanted to highlight the importance of match because when I was in your shoes it wasn't part of my decision making process at all. It really should have been. It's a bit ironic, actually, that I'm an admissions officer now when I bungled my own college search so bad. But through my own misadventures I also feel like I've learned a lot. And if I could precipitate what I've learned into one little nugget of wisdom, it would be the meaningfulness of finding your match.

Maybe MIT is a match for you. In case it isn't abundantly, redundantly clear by now, it is for me. Many of y'all whom I spoke with at CPW had the same sensemaking experience I described above. Or, maybe MIT isn't a match. Either way, it's OK! My only bit of advice is that, when you're figuring things out over the next few days before you have to put a deposit down, keep match in mind. That's it.

Good luck, Class of 2015. No matter where you go, you are all awesome. It's been a pleasure, and a privilege, working with you. Stay cool. You're going to make the world a better place. And there's no honor, or decision, greater than that.

Comments (Closed after 30 days to reduce spam)

awesomee post

Posted by: Hamsika '13 on April 22, 2011

Great post. And I for one am so glad to have Chris Peterson here:)

Posted by: kris on April 22, 2011

Good enough to spark the sense of 'match' within.

Posted by: Shahariar Hassan on April 22, 2011

@chris
awesome post !! neways im taking a gap year.i'm pretty sure that the match b/w me and MIT exists but the gap year sounds tempting!
sorry!
but ill be back '16!

Posted by: admitted '15 on April 22, 2011

Awesome post! Thank you smile

Posted by: Quynh on April 22, 2011

Great post.

Posted by: Daniel on April 22, 2011

Chris, I just wanted to say that, first during the FB chat and then -mainly- during CPW, I had the luck of thinking: "this is the place I should be".

There isn't a better feeling. That "sense of belonging" of which you are talking about is the best that ever happened to me, and I'm glad that I'm commited to MIT.

Posted by: Adrián on April 22, 2011

CPW made it abundantly clear that MIT is a match for me.

The poster by the registration area that said "Dear Prefrosh, Welcome Home" was spot on.

Posted by: Syler on April 22, 2011

I'd just like to say that after I left CPW and went back to my high school I felt homesick...

Posted by: Marianne on April 22, 2011

This is such a wonderful blog, Chris! I had no idea you could write so well!

Posted by: Christina on April 23, 2011

This post connects with me. I am as of now at a school where I am finding every day difficult to endure. Its just that the way I think and the way they want me to think are exact opposites. I know MIT is my match. Its somewhere I belong. MIT, I am coming. Wait for 2 more years. You won't regret me.

Posted by: San on April 23, 2011

The different areas of MIT, as well as of other colleges, are so diverse that it's actually quite hard to tell if a place is a "match" or not. It won't always be crystal clear.

But anyways, I think I understand the feeling described here. Great post!

Posted by: Ante on April 23, 2011

MIT is the right 'match' for me smile Thank you Chris! wonderful post!

Posted by: 0 on April 23, 2011

hahaha, yes, i still remember interviewing you raspberry

sometimes i forget that you're not much older than us, lol wink

Posted by: oasis '11 on April 23, 2011

If you asked me a year ago, what colleges I'm considering, I would never have said MIT. But I can't believe how welcoming the school felt once I hit CPW. All the stereotypes, although sometimes true, it didn't fit everyone because the campus was so diverse. I finally found my people here. This is the only place in which you can truly be you, and the hard work is all worth it.

Posted by: Thunder Cat on April 24, 2011

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