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Connie H. '15

Sep 15, 2011

Fit

Posted in: Best of the Blogs, Miscellaneous

Nearly nine months after getting into MIT, one question I continue to ask myself is "am I in the right place?"

How do we know when we get there? Exactly a year ago from today, teachers and classmates insisted the right place would be the one with the right "fit". I know by September, college applications have rolled around—this gorgeous month usually comes along with a big helping of the word "fit". At this point, it's a buzzword. Fit is something with a million different meanings, highly subjective and incredibly vague. A good fit is a place where you feel completely natural, where you can focus your efforts on achieving instead of diverting part of it to maintaining something you are not. The idea of fit is something that possibly determines your happiness across multiple facets of your life--how well you fit in at school, at work or at home affects more than we'd like. But when you find that true fit, that perfect place for you, it's much easier to be happy.

In terms of colleges, I had no idea what the right fit felt like until I visited MIT in April for CPW. Long story short, I ate an obscene amount of liquid nitrogen ice cream. I made friends who weren't afraid to spout Maxwell's equations in regular conversation and then go back to talking about Jersey Shore in the same minute. I saw an incredible display of talent from down-to-earth, friendly peers just a few months or years older than me.

I wasn't convinced I was a right fit at MIT until I talked with my CPW host Erica, the most amazing 2014 you ever did meet. She told me that at MIT, everyone was "the smart one" or "the ambitious one" in high school—sometimes that's all they ever were. But because everyone already shared that at MIT, people shined for other reasons—my host was already known as "the funny one" among other things. (The awesome one?)

That was my light bulb moment about MIT being the right fit for me. Fit is an experience and a quality that varies for everyone, but in the end you can't imagine yourself anywhere else.

You're probably thinking, "Damn it, Connie. You still didn't explain what fit means."

You're right. I could never really put it into words until I went through sorority recruitment last week, when a senior explained what "fit" meant to her. She told us that we should look around the room and see if we could find pieces of ourselves reflected back at us. Could we see facets of ourselves that we would always hold true, as well as facets we would like to have from sisters we could look up to and admire? If so, we were in the right place.

In the upcoming months, look for those pieces of your current self and the pieces of who you want to be whenever you must look for the right fit--be it among friends, clubs, schools, groups and so on. If you can find those pieces, you're probably in the right place.

I have, and I haven't regretted it since.
 

Comments (Closed after 30 days to reduce spam)

This article really opened my eyes to the question if MIT really is a 'fit' for me. I've wanted to go to MIT ever since I was 10 years old, but what kept me going for so long to gear myself towards just this one school instead of other good schools when I don't even know if it's truly a good fit for me? I guess I've been running on a gut feeling. I know a fit can't be forced, so I'm still looking for that click. I'll be searching for those facets of myself more carefully this next year. Very insightful article, Connie. Thanks.

Posted by: Lakesha Jones on September 15, 2011

Wow! This is one article that captured the real essence of MIT! It is the diversity and variety that people bring that brightens up this place!

I've got a strong gut feeling too raspberry

Posted by: Raj Kunkolienkar ('16)? on September 16, 2011

Did you stay at McCormick over CPW by any chance?

Posted by: anon '14 on September 17, 2011

Great article. The part about being known as someone other than "the smart one" at MIT really hit home.

Posted by: Mike on September 18, 2011

Lakesha,
I hope you find what you're looking for. Please let me know how your search goes!

Raj,
I completely agree! MIT does an amazing job of capturing a diverse range of talents and backgrounds smile

Anon,
I was in Burton 5 for CPW. I'm living in Baker now.

Mike,
Thank you. I hope it means as much to you as it did for me!

Posted by: Connie H. '15 on September 18, 2011

I can completely relate with the fit-feeling. I wasn't sure about coming to MIT until CPW either. But after the four days of meeting down-to-earth students, eating TONS of free food, not sleeping, singing lots of karaoke, and crashing with a really awesome prefrosh in some random Burton Conner suite, I knew that this was the place for me.

I can't wait to read your future posts wink

Posted by: Frosh '15 on September 20, 2011

I have a question still why you think you fit. Here's an excerpt from previous blog post by Chris,

"she'd like to study Marketing here at MIT, as well as cross-register for art classes at MassArt should she come across a Time-Turner in her dorm."

I'll be honest, but that doesn't sound like MIT really... and why all the emphasis on a time turner, when most other students will be taking much more challenging majors?

Posted by: anon on September 20, 2011

Frosh '15,
I'm glad we're here together wink

anon,
I agree it doesn't sound like what you normally hear about MIT, but I don't think there's anything wrong with having diverse interests. And if you could manage more challenging majors without a time turner, then kudos to you. Honestly, I know personally it'll take plenty of work and time for me to get everything done. I'm hoping with the incredible support at MIT from the school, professors and peers, I'll figure it all out. It sounds like you have/will.

Posted by: Connie H. '15 on September 22, 2011

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